Self-Help Resources - Forms and Instructions
- General Information
- How to use the Instructional Packets
- Dissolution, Legal Separation, and Nullity Cases
- How to Start a Case - Marriage
- How to Start a Case - Domestic Partnership
- How to Serve and File a Response
- How to Amend Your Petition
- Instructions for Completing the Financial Disclosure Packet (Brief Instructions)
- How to Complete the Declaration of Disclosure (Detailed Instructions)
- Completing the Income and Expense Declaration
- How to Request a Default and Schedule a Default Hearing (Brief Instructions)
- How to Obtain a Judgment by Default (Detailed Instructions)
- Instructions for Completing the Memorandum that Family Case is At Issue (Brief Instructions)
- Obtaining a Judgment When You Do Not Agree (Detailed Instructions)
- Uniform Parentage Act Cases
- Family Law Hearings
- Service of Process
- Guardianship of Minors
- Other Forms and Instructions
- Completing the Fee Waiver Application
- Completing a Petition for Joinder (Person)
- Completing a Petition for Joinder (Pension)
- Filing a Notice of Unavailability
- Dismissing a Family Law Case
- Restoring Your Former Name
- Stepparent Adoption
- Petition for Custody and Support of Minor Children
- Determining Child Support Arrears
- Grandparent Visitation
General Information
These instructional guidelines are designed for use in conjunction with the Family Law Facilitator's Office's e-Corresponsence System. Before attempting to use any of the instructions included here, we recommend that you contact the Family Law Facilitator's Office to determine which instructions can be used in your case.
How to use the instructional packets
To begin using the instructional packets, you should have all necessary forms available. The instructions take you through a step-by-step process that will assist you in filling out your forms. In addition, each set of instructions provides information on the purpose of each form and when it is appropriate to use it.
Where a form exists, the form number and a link to the form are included. Where there is no form, the term "pleading" is used. If there is no form, you may create your own form, so long as it complies with the California Rules of Court and other statutory law, or you may use the sample forms and pleadings provided.
Dissolution, Legal Separation, and Nullity Cases
How to Start a Case - Marriage
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Summons (FL-110)
- Petition (FL-100)
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Declaration Under Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (FL-105)
- (If there are minor children of the marriage.)
- Proof of Service of Summons (FL-115)
Please reference How to Start a Dissolution, Legal Separation, or Nullity Case for instructions.
How to Start a Case - Domestic Partnership
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Summons (FL-110)
- Petition -- Domestic Partnership (FL-103)
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Declaration Under Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (FL-105)
- (If there are minor children of the domestic partnership.)
- Proof of Service of Summons (FL-115)
Please reference How to start a Dissolution, Legal Separation or Nullity Case - Domestic Partnership for instructions.
How to Serve and File a Response
Forms used in these instructions:
Please reference How to Serve and File a Response in a Dissolution, Legal Separation, Parentage or Nullity Petition for instructions.
How to Amend Your Petition
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Summons (FL-110)
- Petition (FL-100)
- Declaration Under Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (FL-105)(if there are minor children of the marriage)
- Proof of Service of Summons (FL-115)
Please reference How to Amend Your Petition for instructions.
Instructions for Completing the Financial Disclosure Packet (Brief Instructions)
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Declaration of Disclosure (FL-140)
- Schedule of Assets and Debts (4 sides) (FL-142)
- Income and Expense Declaration (4 sides) (FL-150)
- Declaration Regarding Service of Declaration of Disclosure (FL-141)
Please reference Instructions for Completing the Financial Disclosure Packet for instructions.
How to Complete the Declarations of Disclosure (Detailed Instructions)
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Declaration of Disclosure (FL-140)
- Schedule of Assets and Debts (4 sides) (FL-142)
- Income and Expense Declaration (4 sides) (FL-150)
- Declaration Regarding Service of Declaration of Disclosure (FL-141)
Please reference How to Complete the Declarations of Disclosure for instructions.
Completing the Income and Expense Declaration
The Income and Expense Declaration (FL-150), consists of the following parts:
- Income and Expense Declaration
- Income Information
- Expense Information
- Child Support Information
Please reference Completing the Income and Expense Declaration for instructions.
How to Request a Default and Schedule a Default Hearing (Brief Instructions)
Forms used in these instructions:
- Request to Enter Default (FL-165)
- Income and Expense Declaration (FL-150)(if needed)
- Property Declaration (FL-160)(if needed)
Please reference How to Request a Default and Schedule a Default Hearing for instructions.
How to Obtain a Judgment by Default (Detailed Instructions)
Forms used in these instructions include:
If you plan to have a hearing, you will first need the following documents:
- Request to Enter Default (FL-165)
- Income and Expense Declaration (FL-150)(if needed)
- Property Declaration (FL-160)(if needed)
You will then need to complete and take the following forms with you to your hearing:
- Judgment (FL-180)
- Child Custody and Visitation Order Attachment (FL-341)(if needed)
- Supervised Visitation Order (FL-341(A))(if needed)
- Child Support Information and Order Attachment (FL-342)(if needed)
- Non-Guideline Child Support Findings Attachment (FL-342(A))(if needed)
- Child Support Case Registry Form, form FL-191(if needed)
- Spousal or Family Support Order Attachment (FL-343)(if needed)
- Notice of Rights and Responsibilities (FL-192) (if needed)
- Notice of Entry of Judgment (FL-190)
If you plan to proceed without a hearing, you will need to complete all of the above documents, as well as one additional document:
Please reference How to Obtain a Judgment of Dissolution, Legal Separation, or Annulment by Default for instructions.
Instructions for Completing the Memorandum that Family Case is At Issue (Brief Instructions)
Forms used in these instructions include:
Memorandum to Set (FL/E-LP-625)
Please reference Instructions for Completing the Memorandum that Family Case is At Issue for instructions. Once you receive your Settlement Conference and Trial dates from the court, you must complete, serve, and file a Pre-Trial Statement .
Obtaining a Judgment When You Do Not Agree (Detailed Instructions)
Forms used in these instructions:
Please reference Obtaining A Judgment of Dissolution, Nullity or Legal Separation When You Do Not Agree for instructions. Once you receive your Settlement Conference and Trial dates from the court, you must complete, serve, and file a Pre-Trial Statement.
Uniform Parentage Act Cases
Starting a Case
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Summons (FL-210)
- Petition to Establish Parental Relationship (FL-200)
- Declaration Under Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act (FL-105)
- Proof of Service of Summons (FL-115)
Please reference Starting a Uniform Parentage Act Case for instructions.
How to Serve and File a Response
Forms used in these instructions:
Please reference How to Serve and File a Response in a Dissolution, Legal Separation, Parentage or Nullity Petition for instructions.
How to Obtain a Judgment by Default
Forms used in these instructions include:
You will then need to complete and take the following forms with you to your hearing:
- Judgment (Uniform Parentage) (FL-250)
- Child Custody and Visitation Order Attachment (FL-341)
- Supervised Visitation Order (FL-341(A))(if needed)
- Child Support Information and Order Attachment (FL-342)
- Non-Guideline Child Support Findings Attachment (FL-342(A))(if needed)
- Child Support Case Registry Form (FL-191)
- Notice of Rights and Responsibilities (FL-192)
- Notice of Entry of Judgment (FL-190)
If you plan to proceed without a hearing, you will need to complete all of the above documents, as well as two additional document:
- Declaration for Default or Uncontested Judgment (FL-230)
- Advisement and Waiver of Rights Re: Establishment of Parental Relationship (FL-235)
Please reference How to Obtain a Uniform Parentage Act Judgment by Default for instructions.
Family Law Hearings
Completing the Order to Show Cause Packet
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Order to Show Cause (FL-300)
- Application for Order and Supporting Declaration (FL-310)
- Attached Declaration (MC-031) (optional)
- Case Demographic Information Sheet (FL/E-ME-811)
- Child custody and visitation issues only.
- Mediation Notice (FL/E-LP-642)
- Proof of Personal Service (FL-330)
The following forms are also needed. These will be provided blank to the other party:
- Responsive Declaration to Order to Show Cause or Notice of Motion (FL-320)
-
Income and Expense Declaration (FL-150)
- Include only if you completed one.
Please reference Completing the Order to Show Cause Packet for instructions. Before filing an Order to Show Case to modify your child custody or visitation orders, we recommend that you review our instructions on Documenting Custody and Visitation Problems .
Completing the Income and Expense Declaration
The Income and Expense Declaration (FL-150), consists of the following parts:
- Income and Expense Declaration
- Income Information
- Expense Information
- Child Support Information
Please reference Completing the Income and Expense Declaration for instructions.
Completing the Notice of Motion Packet
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Notice of Motion (FL-301)
- Application for Order and Supporting Declaration (FL-310)
- Attached Declaration (MC-031)(optional)
- Proof of Service By Mail (FL-335)
The following forms are also needed. These will be provided blank to the other party:
Please reference Completing the Notice of Motion Packet for instructions. If you are filing a motion to compel the other party to complete their financial disclosures, you must make a written demand before filing your motion. You may use our sample Demand Letter for this purpose.
Responding to an Order to Show Cause or Notice of Motion
Forms used in these instructions:
- Responsive Declaration to Order to Show Cause or Notice of Motion (FL-320)
- Proof of Service by Mail (FL-335)
Please reference How to Complete a Responsive Declaration for instructions.
How to Prepare A Findings and Order After Hearing
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Findings and Order After Hearing (FL-340)
- Child Custody and Visitation Order Attachment (FL-341)
- Supervised Visitation Order (FL-341A)
- Child Support Information and Order Attachment (FL-342)
- Non-Guideline Child Support Findings Attachment (FL-342(A))
- Property Order Attachment (FL-344)
- Notice of Rights and Responsibilities and Information Sheet on Changing a Child Support Order (FL-192)
You will only need those forms relating to the orders made by the Judge at your hearing. If you are uncertain whether you need a particular form, read the instructions for that form. Attach only those forms relating to orders from your Minute Order. All forms will be covered in these instructions, so skip the ones that do not apply.
Please reference How to Prepare A Findings and Order After Hearing for instructions.
Service of Process
Serving Someone Outside of California
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Proof of Service of Summons (FL-115); or
- Proof of Personal Service (FL-330); or
- Proof of Service by Mail (FL-335)
Please reference Serving Someone Who Does not Live in California for instructions.
Serving Someone Who is Incarcerated
Forms used in these instructions include:
Please reference Serving Documents to Someone Who is Incarcerated for instructions.
Service by Publication
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Petition for and Declaration in Support of Service of Process by Publication - Dissolution, (pleading); or
- Petition for and Declaration in Support of Service of Process by Publication - Parentage, (pleading); and
- Order for Publication, (pleading)
You will only need the petition that applies to the type of case you have filed.
Please reference Service by Publication for instructions.
Service by Posting
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Petition for and Declaration in Support of Service of Process by Posting and Mailing to Last Known Address - Dissolution, (pleading); or
- Petition for and Declaration in Support of Service of Process by Posting and Mailing to Last Known Address - Parentage, (pleading); and
- Clerk's Certificate of Posting, (pleading); and
- Order for Posting, (pleading)
You will only need the petition that applies to the type of case you have filed.
Please reference Service by Posting for instructions.
Guardianship of Minors
Objecting to a Petition for Guardianship
Forms used to object to a Petition for Guardianship include:
- Objection to Guardianship, (pleading); and
- Proof of Service by Mail, (FL-335)
Please file your forms in our Probate Office, Room 214, after they are complete and have been served on all other parties.
Responding to Calendar Notes
Form used in these instructions:
- Response to Calendar Notes, (PR-E-LP-022)
Please reference Guardianship Calendar Notes Instructions.
Completing a Declaration of Due Diligence
Form used in these instructions:
- Declaration of Diligent Search, (PR-E-LP-010)
Please reference the Diligent Search Instructions.
Terminating a Guardianship
Forms used in these instructions:
- Termination of Guardianship, Supplemental Information (PR-E-LP-039)
- Petition for Termination of Guardianship (GC-255)
- Order Terminating Guardianship (GC-260)
- Notice of Hearing-Guardianship or Conservatorship (GC-020)
- Attachment to Notice of Hearing Proof of Service by Mail (GC-020(MA)
- Attached Declaration (MC-031) if needed
- Declaration of Diligent Search (PR-E-LP-010) if needed
Please reference the Terminating a Guardianship instructions.
Other Forms and Instructions
Completing the Fee Waiver Application
Forms used in these instructions include:
Please reference the Fee Waiver page for additional information.
Completing a Petition for Joinder (Person)
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Summons (Joinder) (FL-375)
- Petition for Joinder (Custody/Visitation) (FL/E-LP-607)
- Notice of Motion and Declaration for Joinder (FL-371)
- Mediation Notice (FL/E-LP-642)
- Proof of Service By Mail (FL-335)
- Proof of Personal Service (FL-330)
Other forms needed (do not complete these forms, they will be provided blank to the other parties):
- Responsive Declaration to Motion for Joinder/Consent Order of Joinder (FL-373)
- Proof of Service By Mail (FL-335)
Please reference Completing a Petition for Joinder for instructions.
Completing a Petition for Joinder (Pension)
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Summons (Joinder), (FL-375)
- Request for Joinder of Employee Benefit Plan and Order, (FL-372)
- Pleading on Joinder - Employee Benefit Plan, (FL-370)
Other forms needed for this process are:
- Notice of Acknowledgement of Receipt, (FL-117)
- Notice of Appearance and Response of Employee Benefit Plan, (FL-374)
- Two (2) Proofs of Service by Mail, (FL-335)
Please reference Joinder of a Pension Plan for instructions.
Filing a Notice of Unavailability
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Notice of Unavailability, (pleading); and
- Proof of Service by Mail, (FL-335)
Please reference the Instructions for Filing a Notice of Unavailability.
Dismissing a Family Law Case
Forms used in these instructions include:
Please reference How to Dismiss a Case for instructions.
Please note that if you want to dismiss a domestic violence restraining order, you must schedule a hearing by filing an Order to Show Cause (see those instructions above).
Restoring Your Former Name
The form used in these instructions is as follows:
Please reference Ex Parte Restoration of Former Name After Entry of Judgment for instructions.
Please note that the form can only be used to restore your former name after a Judgement of Dissolution of Marriage has been entered by the court.
Stepparent Adoption
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Adoption Request (ADOPT-200)
- Adoption Agreement (ADOPT-210)
- Contact After Adoption (optional) (ADOPT-310)
- Indian Child Inquiry Attachment (ICWA-010(A))
- Adoption Questionnaire (FL/E-LP-647
- Consent to Adoption by Parent Retaining Custody (AD 2 (6/02)
- Consent to Adoption by Parent in California Giving Custody to Husband or Wife or Domestic Partner of Other Parent (if applicable) (AD 2A (6/02)
- Adoption Order (ADOPT-215)
- Court Report of Adoption (VS 44) available at the Family Law Filing Counter
Please reference Stepparent Adoption for instructions on filing a case in Sacramento County.
Petition for Custody and Support of Minor Children
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Summons (FL-210)
- Petition for Custody and Support of Minor Children (FL-260)
- Declaration Under Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (FL-105)
- Income and Expense Delaration (FL-150)
- Proof of Service of Summons (FL-115)
Please reference Starting a Custody and Support Case for Minor Children for instructions.
Determining Your Child Support Arrears
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Order to Show Cause (FL-300)
- Application to Determine Arrearages (FL-490)
- Declaration of Payment History(FL-420)
- Payment History Attachment (FL-421)
- Proof of Personal Service (FL-330)
The following forms are also needed. These will be provided blank to the other party:
- Responsive Declaration to Order to Show Cause or Notice of Motion (FL-320)
- Proof of Service by Mail (FL-335)
- Mediation Notice (FL/E-LP-642)
Please reference How to Ask the Court to Determine Your Support Balance for instructions.
Grandparent Visitation
Forms used in these instructions include:
- Summons (SUM-100)(2 copies of this form will be needed)
- Petition for Grandparent Vistation (FL/E-LP-606)
- Order to Show Cause Packet (see instructions above)
Please reference Completing a Complaint for Grandparent Visitation for instructions.
